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This post is "FYI only" for blahaj lemmy members. It is not a debate, and is not intended for non blahaj lemmy users to weigh in and offer opinions.

I recently received reports of a feddit.uk user espousing transphobia. Specifically, this was a feddit.uk user refusing to use the word cis, repeating the "adult human female" dog whistle, and claiming that trans women are not women. I approached a member of the feddit.uk admin team and raised my concerns and sought clarification of their stance on posts like this, where the transphobia is mostly dogwhistles, and "civil disagreement" on the validity of trans folk.

I was told by the feddit.uk admin that their preferred response is this kind of transphobia is to "sort it out through discussion and voting". However, the comments in question are currently more upvoted than downvoted, and little "sorting out" has occurred. The posts remain in place.

At this point, the admin stopped responding to my messages despite being active elsewhere on lemmy. When it became clear they were ignoring my messages and had no intention of removing the posts in question, I made the decision to defederate the instance.

I know some folk agree with the feddit.uk admins approach of pushback through discussion and voting, but this instance is not designed to be that kind of space. Blahaj lemmy is meant to be a place where we can avoid the rampant transphobia universally visible on nearly every other social media platform, and where we can exist without needing to debate our right to do so.

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[โ€“] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 2 days ago

Thanks Ada!

I hope the feddit.uk admins reconsider their approach to moderating transphobia, but in the mean time I appreciate your protective stance. ๐Ÿ’—

[โ€“] Lenny@lemmy.zip 30 points 2 days ago

Non-blahaj user weighing in

Well done ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘

[โ€“] salvaria@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 2 days ago

Thank you for your hard work on making blahaj a great place for everyone!

I approve. Good work.

Sounds like the right move. Thank you.

Funny, I already had feddit.uk instance blocked so this is nice, lol.

[โ€“] als@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 days ago

It's a shame that that's their stance as I post on communities there fairly often and at least some of the mods have outwardly come to defend trans people in the comments of my posts before. That said, I understand the decision.

thank you mods

[โ€“] Lux@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 days ago

Blahaj admins try not to be based challenge (impossible)

[โ€“] pewgar_seemsimandroid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

i was subscribed to a few communties there, might create a account there or a federated instance for those.

[โ€“] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Thank you for facilitating a safe place and for the transparency

[โ€“] MummysLittleBloodSlut@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)
[โ€“] TheBat@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago
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[โ€“] lazynooblet@lazysoci.al 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

What response from an instance admin on this situation would have been expected/acceptable?

[โ€“] VasovagalSyncope@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (10 children)

Based for defederating from feddit

Cringe for another decision that effects all blahaj users without their consent without posting any proof.

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