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[–] Ensign_Crab@lemmy.world 1 points 11 minutes ago

The lid was always on.

[–] untorquer@lemmy.world 1 points 18 minutes ago

Hahaha...

No just the ones who jumped out had means. The pot has a lid.

[–] JeremyHuntQW12@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago

They jumped into the pot.

[–] dx1@lemmy.world 4 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

This isn't the first empire. Masses can be brainwashed. You can even have multiple layers of brainwashing, like how Republicans are extremely brainwashed, and Democrats are secondarily brainwashed to think they're the moral opposition, while both of them unquestioningly support the undercurrent of global imperialism.

Literally the only escape is the entire population being fully educated on the nature of politics, economics, societies, history. A people cannot realize a free and just society without completely understanding what that requires. Until then you're all just a fish flopping around on the floor of a boat.

[–] grysbok@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I'm trying! I'm working towards proving I'm Polish-by-descent, then I'll be able to hold an EU passport. It's slow going.

And in the mean time, I'm in a trans-friendly state, can pass as cis and hetero, and I'm white. I have a go bag and a US passport that matches my birth gender. My next steps are improving my food stores to protect against tariff impacts.

The only things that tie me to this country are my friends (who are also looking into exit plans and whom I talk to online more than in person) and my dog (I imagine moving to a new country with a dog is even harder than finding an apartment with a dog). Oh, and I really love my job and my coworkers, but my job might go away with all of the societal upset.

[–] Pofski@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago

Just short FYI, I don't know exactly your situation so I won't go to deep into it, but moving to another country with a dog is no big deal. If you are worried about the dog, they just want to be with you, where ever you go.

Tell that to my cat who keep trying to go outside when its freezing and its winter. Wtf

[–] HubertManne@moist.catsweat.com 10 points 11 hours ago

ok. ok. ok. this is a bit of a stretch. I mean its really not all that slow.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 47 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Its such a shit situation. If you want out, you generally need to get a job in another country. A job in a different country generally pays significantly less than the cost of living in most of the USA, so you need to already have a significant amount of money already saved to even consider it an option.

Most of us are just fucking trapped.

[–] butwhyishischinabook@lemmy.world 22 points 15 hours ago

And in the case of the EU you probably aren't getting in unless you're highly credentialed. For all their shit talking they sure hate large-scale immigration.

[–] TheBrideWoreCrimson@sopuli.xyz 6 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago)

Maybe I'm missing the point, but COL in other countries is also only a fraction of the US's. We don't live in hunger and squalor over here, you know. Plus, to move, you won't need significant savings.
No, the real issue, as with all migration from high- to low-wage countries, is that you cannot easily return for retirement because you're not going to be able to save enough for the US's housings prices or rents.

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago
[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Called my mom last night, told her to renew her passport asap.

Most people are like “the waters warm, this is nice, what are you going on about???” And I’m like “hi yes this water is scalding hot and about to boil we need to get out!”

[–] Today@lemmy.world 10 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Renewed mine online in October. Received in 12 days.

[–] inv3r5ion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 15 hours ago

That was under the previous administration… musk is hollowing out federal jobs so I bet the wait will be tough. Especially as more frogs realize that the pot is boiling…

[–] 11111one11111@lemmy.world 13 points 15 hours ago

Well, duh. A slowly boiling pot of water is just a fucking hot tub for 90% of the time you're in it.

[–] apfelwoiSchoppen@lemmy.world 29 points 18 hours ago

Billionaires are keeping us in the pot, using levers of power that we don't access from the pot.

[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 90 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Don't forget the millions of us chained to the bottom because we have no choice

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

latin america africa and many parts of east asia sending its regards

[–] HawlSera@lemm.ee 16 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Oh hello my friend, you fully drowned yet? I'm getting there.

[–] thezeesystem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 16 hours ago (9 children)

Having no choice people think we can just jump ship (or I guess the pot) when they don't realize the people who can't do it at all because there chained to it

For instance trans people can't get passports or renew them meaning they have absolutely no way to leave.

We need to stay and help the disenfranchised instead of jumping ship

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Thinking about slow-moving effects, I have a theory that exposure to fiction is one reason people feel inadequate and depressed. For most of human history our idea of what it meant to be normal came from real people around us. We didn't know any fictional characters except for a handful of stories told around the fire. After radio was invented we got to know a lot more fictional characters, a lot faster and more intimately than we get to know most real people. Then television made it more vivid because we could see them. We think of many of these unreal people as our friends. Some of them have more impact on us than real people do. It's a lot easier to feel boring and inadequate than it was when we didn't feel like we knew people whose lives are so much more dramatic and interesting than ours. I think this is a large part of why it feels like failure to have an unremarkable job or date average people. It's a very slow-moving social change nobody would have seen coming.

[–] fakir@lemm.ee 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

It's still not warm enough for population over a tipping point, you are just more aware of the boiling apparatus. I believe humanity will jump once it gets warm enough, much like a frog does, even in a slowly boiling pot of water. I trust humanity, after all we've survived so far, our ancestors overcoming much much worse. Can you imagine living in feudalism? Or sword fighting in medieval times? Or when we had to hunt?

[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

We'll definitely jump when it gets hot enough, the question is if we'll jump before the logistics and mechanics of solving the problem take longer than it takes the world to become uninhabitable.

“The guy trying to help me out of a pot is a different type of left than me, so i don’t want his help, and that other guy below me is also a different type of left so fuck him. Anyone who is slightly right or left of me is a fascist and I’m gonna enjoy watching them boil”

-the American left in 2024

[–] usrtrv@sh.itjust.works 49 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago) (3 children)

As an American who just emigrated, I guess I jumped. I can still vote from overseas, but I'm pessimistic about the future.

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 38 points 23 hours ago

Yea.....

Post UK Brexit was when I thought the same thing.

[–] tryptamine@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

Inside the pot: slowly boiling water

Outside the pot: raging inferno that is heating the pot

When given the option to slowly boil, or jump into a raging inferno, I think most people would think twice about jumping out of the pot.

[–] Shezzagrad@lemmy.ml 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Pot boiling and the raging inferno are both in America. Go and explore, the world is more peaceful then you think

[–] tryptamine@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

I understand, but like lots of people in America I was born here and have have had my wages suppressed because of multiple “once in a lifetime” financial crises to the point I can’t afford to travel, and therefore I can’t afford to immigrate.

[–] Shezzagrad@lemmy.ml 2 points 10 hours ago

I genuinely so sorry and wish the good Americans could move over easier. One word of advice you don't have to take at all. If you wanna travel look into placements like teaching or volunteering. Having a more global perspective rather than America focus will help a lot, seeing a world outside the bougie third world nation of America. But I'm rooting for you bud

[–] latenightnoir@lemmy.world 20 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

This would imply that they're not surrounded by other pots filled with water which is (varying degrees of) boiling. We don't really have a Socialist Utopia meeting spot, let's say.

Beyond that, eloping requires a not insignificant amount of money (as a Romanian, I can say that homes/apartments aren't cheap here, either, and we're not exactly L.A.)

And at the other end of the line, immigration's not exactly thought of with fondness, even in Europe. Don't forget, we're stewing in our own pot even if the heat's still relatively tolerable.

[–] Goodmorningsunshine@lemmy.world 12 points 18 hours ago (3 children)

This is a problem I'm having now with my boyfriend. I want to get out of the US and he says, "Where? Everywhere's falling to fascism right now. And it's hard and expensive to emigrate." It doesn't help that he also thinks it's not worth it to think about leaving until the water's actually boiling and he has verified it.

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Your boyfriend is right. Unless one of you has an in-demand technical degree or a lot of money, immigration to Western countries is going to be out of reach. That leaves you with weakened economies which are either already authoritarian, or trending authoritarian. Even if you could get to a place like Europe, far-right parties emboldened by their new U.S. support are rising in popularity and receiving centrist support in places like France and Germany.

There is no green field to relax in while the rest of the world collapses. You'll have to fight to prevent the slide to fascism wherever you go.

[–] Goodmorningsunshine@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

True - it's the rising tide right now and probably for humanity's future since we're on a sinking ship globally. I do have the benefit of working for a global company and a boss who's already told me I can transfer to whichever country I pick that they operate in. But he's not as optimistic for his own job needs, and it's still about choosing a country that could possibly just let us die in peace before it also goes to shit.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 6 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah most people were like "I'm moving to Canada!" Ignoring the fact that the person most likely to be PM in a couple months is also fully a Musk shill. Europe is pushing right-wing and the UK's been down bad for a while. Maybe Australia or New Zealand?

[–] Curious_Canid@lemmy.ca 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

The Scandanavian countries currently look the safest to me. I think Iceland would be nearly ideal, in a lot of ways. but I worry that they may be annexed by one of the larger powers as things get uglier.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

Yes I was gonna say Scandinavian countries too but I have heard of a lot of institutional and general racism there (although where isn't there that right now...). Probably still a top choice though when it comes to run of the mill racism vs full on Nazis I guess.

[–] cheers_queers@lemm.ee 6 points 15 hours ago

he's not wrong..

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