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[–] ihatetheworld@lemmy.ml 47 points 2 days ago (4 children)

My brain just go ..... when random awkward 30 second sex scene happens out of nowhere or they just start making out, kissing and moaning loudly then suddenly we are in the next scene and everything is back to normal. Why?

Unless the film is sexual in nature random full frontal nudity, stray tits, stray ass, visible privates always makes me so confused.

[–] Demdaru@lemmy.world 16 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Naked is okay. Sexual is unneeded. Normalize body.

I sound like some brainswashing machine from 80' movie xD Anyway, I am more rolling my eyes hard at current trend to insert romance everywhere than occassional, non-sexual nudity.

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[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 16 points 2 days ago (26 children)

Okay, but what makes it “random” to you? It’s art. Nudity in art has been around since art began—took a few years off for puritanical reasons, sure, but we’re all human, we all share having a naked body in common. And sex is the most natural thing. So to include it in art is just as natural.

Our attitudes toward it have changed. Why, though? What makes you feel awkward about seeing sex or nudity

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[–] i_dont_want_to@lemmy.blahaj.zone 20 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Is the spike in the early 2000's from the cinematic masterpiece The Room? Three sex scenes in the span of like 15 minutes, ooh la la.

Seriously though, as much of a horndog I can be, I like the decline of random sex scenes in movies. Very rarely added anything to the story for me. I'm not a fan of violence, but fortunately it's not too hard to avoid.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Yeah, my bet is that sex used to be this thing you rarely see, so seeing it in a movie was this interesting event. Now we have access to more porn than you could possibly ever consume at your fingertips. Sex in movies used to sell a movie. Now I don't think anyone really cares.

Some people are seeing this and assuming sex has become more divisive so they stopped showing it. I'm almost certain it's the opposite. No one cares anymore.

[–] BluesF@lemmy.world 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Three sex scenes using footage from only one lmao

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[–] XaiwahBlue@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 days ago (3 children)

My question would be how much of this is actors no longer being completely subjected to the gross wims of the director. How many scenes had little to do with a story and felt more like the director using the opportunity to make pretty people obey them.

We have intimacy directors now and what may also be happening is individuals having more say in production and in their bodily autonomy and I don't see that as an issue particularly.

Did random sex scenes really hit the level of art for you folks? Is pornography art the same way? 🤔 You know both are made for mass sale and consumption usually, the same way, much more than trying to make content to say anything.

But um "it so bad we block the titties!" or whatever is popular to say. Even though i personally don't remember many that added anything story related. Show me them bonding in a real way, sex doesn't cement anything if you've ever had a cheating partner, but a real collection of moments spent together between them that shows understanding and sacrifice for each other can really have an impact.

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[–] WoahWoah@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Roughly correlates with the rate of decrease in people 18-30 having sex. I'm not sure of the order of influence there, or if there even is one, but it's possible the declining presence of sex in media is a result of it being less relatable for something like 30% more young people than previous generations.

[–] Camzing@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] steeznson@lemmy.world 34 points 2 days ago (13 children)

Ok I understand the comments here where people are saying they dislike sex scenes that don't advance the plot. However there are certain movies where sex scenes are essential to the plot such as Boogie Nights. I can also think of examples like The Name Of The Rose where a sex scene is thematically improving the film (in my opinion).

Sex scenes in film/tv are hard to get right but I'd prefer if directors worked harder to capture/deploy them properly rather than a large facet of human experience disappearing during script interventions by producers and studios.

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[–] Thcdenton@lemmy.world 13 points 2 days ago

Sex scenes are goofy af

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 63 points 2 days ago (10 children)

i think it was prevalent before the interwebs because there was largely few places to get porn, and throwing it in a movie meant more eyeballs.

as porn became immediately available in other forms (mostly the internet), the unnecessary scenes could be eliminated as a waste of time and a detraction from plots. they ceased being a reason to draw eyeballs.

[–] Alexstarfire@lemmy.world 65 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (6 children)

You telling me this wasn't relevant to the plot?

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[–] bitwaba@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Is this what it feels like to be color blind and have people show you charts? Who the hell puts all the other comparison metrics in gray scale?

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[–] oo1@lemmings.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

"I've I've been waiting for the right time to bring this up, but I feel like we need to address the elephant in the room, no?" . . . "where's the dong?"

[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

They saved all the dongs for The Boys.

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[–] SiEstUbiEst@lemmy.world 44 points 2 days ago (10 children)

Wish it was more sex and less violence

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 29 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I remember a bunch of years ago talking about This Film Is Not Yet Rated, and how I thought it was absurd a scene where someone's brains get shot out and they die is ok, but a non-graphic cunnilingus shot was unacceptable. The two people I was talking to, a woman older than me and someone my age, were both like "No that makes total sense. I'd watch a violent movie with my kid but not one with sex in it"

I was like, "You'd rather your kid run around fantasizing about murder than sex?" And they were like "yeah"

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[–] GladiusB@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

We are all here because of sex. I think it's outrageous that violence is glorified when there isn't a single person here not made from sex. Ok maybe a few but it's a really small percentage.

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[–] JoYo@lemmy.ml 34 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Three grey value lines is stupid.

Don't be stupid.

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[–] InverseParallax@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Jesus tap dancing christ.

WE HAVE PORN! INFINITE PORN!! 24/7 IN OUR POCKETS!!!

We used to find sex on film exciting, now if we get turned on we pause Netflix and hit the real stuff.

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[–] earth_walker@lemmy.world 36 points 2 days ago (8 children)

It's kind of a bummer as it's nice to have a more artistic representation of sex outside of porn which is more of a commodity. Movies can connect the sexy scenes to the non-sexy scenes which potentially makes them more powerful. Also, movies can tie moral value to sex which is interesting to explore.

I am in favor of sex in movies making a comeback, as long as it doesn't create problems for the actors.

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[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

So basically in the ~~distant future year of~~ year 2000 movies mostly had it all?

Like fast food (chains) - products topped with sugar, fats, and salt, so there is no need for actual quality?

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[–] IMNOTCRAZYINSTITUTION@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I find myself watching older TV a lot because it's got way less graphic sex and violence. I don't want to see a person get ripped in half and their guts flying everywhere and i don't need to see every actress' boobs. sorry if that makes me a "prude" or whatever but it's way too much for my taste

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