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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Still got a pretty good body count, though. Can’t have a sex scene, but films of virtually non -stop violence is cool.

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[–] weew@lemmy.ca 53 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (8 children)

Sex scenes in movies are a combination of this weird shameful "I want to show I'm having sex but I can't actually show it" and "It's almost like porn if you removed all the porn."

You're really stuck in a pointless awkward middle ground that satisfies nobody. And 95% of the time it isn't even plot relevant so you're just wasting time. The decline basically just coincides with internet access to the masses.

[–] rottingleaf@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

You can show cute emotions of real people having a moment relevant to their arcs and the plot.

You won't show anything of meaning in a mainstream movie, though.

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[–] PriorityMotif@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Early 2000s were full of horny teen films.

[–] III@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

But extending the chart to include before 2000 wouldn't support the chart's agenda...

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[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago

Oh, lol, good explanation actually.

[–] weker01@sh.itjust.works 61 points 2 days ago (4 children)

That sex is even considered a vice on the same level as drugs and violence is fucking bonkers.

This graph alone gives legitimacy to this idea. Nudity and sex are completely normal (and necessary) things in life. That something that is needed for everyone reading this to exist being labeled as a vice like violence and drugs is actually disgusting IMHO.

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[–] nul42@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 day ago (1 children)

So sex is a vice now or just when its in a film?

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[–] businessfish@lemmy.blahaj.zone 40 points 1 day ago (3 children)

as an asexual person i find other people's opinions on this interesting. the sex scenes do nothing for me and i'm usually just waiting for them to end but i understand my circumstances are not common. i can only assume that someone who is into sex gets something out of sex scenes, otherwise they wouldn't exist.

what i don't understand is the demonizing of sex scenes in movies. like does everyone only watch movies with their parents/kids? i don't like sex scenes due to my asexuality and i'm glad that there are few of them because this cultural shift benefits me specifically (who has never been in the target demographic) in a roundabout way. but i wouldn't say they are all gross/unnecessary/graphic/etc as a blanket statement like i see people in this thread and other places online say. art doesn't need to be for everyone.

[–] RecluseRamble@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

As a sexual person sex scenes do nothing to me either and feel like time lost for the actual plot.

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[–] freeman@sh.itjust.works 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

It's due to easier accessibility to porn. It both reduces demand for the relatively timid sex scenes in films and also reduces their edginess/shock value.

[–] General_Shenanigans@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

I also think this is it. Sex scenes in movies used to have an effect on people. Now they just tune out and go get a snack and a drink or something until it’s over. Boooriiing. I will say, though, some filmmakers have been forced to get creative. That scene in Bladerunner 2049 was pretty hot. It didn’t even need to include anything gratuitous.

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[–] IndustryStandard@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Sex scenes were usually forced in by people screaming sex sells. These days there are different ways to see breasts than going to a cinema.

[–] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 23 hours ago

This, I think, may be one of the reasons, yes. I have a feeling it's a combination of this (which I see as a change for the better) with people being a bit more prudish (which is not very good in my opinion). And the latter might be the reason for the former, when I think about it, but not necessarily. I wonder whether there's some good research on this.

[–] dutchkimble@lemy.lol 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Tv shows took the sex thing

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[–] JDPoZ@lemmy.world 108 points 2 days ago (9 children)

Because the world shifted to the right a bunch more regarding sexual content… fucking websites now want you to show your ID in some states to view porn.

I think acclaimed director Paul Verhoeven put it best when he called our country a land full of gleefully violent prudes when people freaked out about his use of sexuality, nudity and people being comfortable naked around members of the opposite sex.

[–] Entropywins@lemmy.world 67 points 2 days ago (6 children)

When nudity/sexuality is shown artistically or actually has some depth or place in the story being told, I enjoy it, but 90% of that hollywood shit is hot garbage and I think a lot of folks feel the same.

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[–] VerilyFemme@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 day ago

The kids who watched Titanic with their parents are growing up and making movies now

[–] gmtom@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago

I'm guessing it's because the highest grossing films are now just slop trying to appeal to the widest demographic possible, so if they include sex, the are excluding families from seeing the film.

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