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What's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"? (midwest.social)

submitted 11 months ago by Lanky_Pomegranate530@midwest.social to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 20 points 11 months ago

It is possible to be happy for an ex and really wish them the best.

That is even possible if you have no desire to spend time with them yourself any more. Not everyone who is incompatible with you is a bad person who deserves a bad life, in fact most people are not.