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Why do so many people seem confused about what appeals to male gays? Do they not know how sexual orientation works?
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I mean... I am pansexual and no, I don't fucking know how sexuality works.
How do you determine who is "hot?" How does just looking at someone, with their clothes on, turn you on? I don't work that way. I don't get it.
I'm not attracted to men or women. I am attracted by penises and vaginas and buttholes and balls. The only thing that would make me sexually unattracted to a person, is if they have absolutely no genitalia at all and had a plastic doll crotch.
I know this isn't normal. If it was even common, I'd surely have found another person that is the same.
Im like that except I'm not even attracted to genitals and the like. Sometimes I'll just like what a person is like so much that everything about them becomes sexy. Like, their hands, their voice, the way the hair curls a little bit at the nape of their neck, their wrinkles and freckles. Shit like that. And then sometimes, I'll just start flirting/return their flirt for fun and as the situation becomes sexy, they become sexy. Is it like the latter for you, or do you find genitals and the surrounding area sexy even in non sexual contexts, like a nude beach or an image in a medical textbook?
I would say face and body shape. Sometimes voice. General appearance in terms of confidence and, in later stages, ability to socialize and "present" themselves.