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Does anybody else understand they need to make deep connections with people but their social battery has been dead for a while and can't put up with people's BS? (lemmy.world)

submitted 1 week ago by TheReanuKeeves@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] sentient_loom@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I need more than to just keep working the problem. I'm middle aged and living with family again, I've always been poor even though I excel at all my jobs and I have a degree. And there's no such thing as a "conclusion," except death, so what I'm working at is stable ongoing engagement in an arena where I can maintain that engagement. Still trying to think what that can look like. Thanks for the encouragement.

[–] Disaster@sh.itjust.works 1 points 6 days ago

I have reached something of a conclusion there myself - we haven't done anything wrong. It's systemic, "they" never had any intention of allowing us to work our way to a good life. It was always going to be just enough to keep you alive and most importantly hungry. There are more people in this situation than we think.