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[–] SchmidtGenetics@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (14 children)

When you’re planning on having kids, or pregnant, your health care providers will recommend you take some parenting classes. There’s ways to learn, don’t let your parents not being there for you stop you. You will also likely get recommended to get a doula and midwife.

[–] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 2 days ago (10 children)

It's not the same. For starters, none of it is free. Like every other aspect of capitalism, it disproportionately affects the poor. Also, I don't know about you, but I would never be able to trust a stranger as much as my own family. And the family is also missing out. It's so rewarding to raise a baby. I was involved in raising many of my nieces and nephews, and it was so great. Just interacting with kids is a beautiful thing, and a wonderful stress reliever. (I know not everyone likes babies, but many do.) I know that there's some real threat of perverts, but the fact that babies are pretty much isolated from the society is not great for their growth.

[–] SchmidtGenetics@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (9 children)

Free where I live.

And why do you think the family still can’t be involved? Your parents likely don’t know everything, and there’s recent discoveries to know about too. Even with family support, you should still do all the above as well. Prepare yourself, don’t expect others to always be there.

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com -3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Lotta people lose their families

To christianity, fascism, just being personally shitty

Edit: oooooh downvoting. Don't want to be reminded how christianity shatters families?

[–] lazyViking@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

No, you're downvoted for being incredibly stupid. People with lost families are not part of the discussion about why we don't let family help as much anymore. Because in that case it's very obvious

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