this post was submitted on 04 Nov 2024
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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.

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At some point I have to start wondering if Putin pays these sorts of people.

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[–] pelikan@lemmy.dbzer0.com -1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

On the one hand, a quick check of the author's posts shows that he is just an obvious pro-NATO shill and his question was in bad faith, so Dessalines did nothing wrong by kicking him out.

On the other hand, this thread could have led to an insightful discussion that would have been interesting to read, so it's a shame that it was removed.

In the very beginning, .ml had the unique vibe of a truly decentralized international community with thousands of people from all over the world with different worldviews, leading to fiery and thought-provoking discussions in threads. Unfortunately, it is now actively turning into a hexbear/grad style far-left echo chamber.

[–] drake@lemmy.sdf.org 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

This may be a controversial opinion, but I think instances and communities should just ban people for acting in bad faith. There’s very little actual insightful discussion that you can have without someone trying to just win some unilateral debate with some really obnoxious comments. I hate seeing people arguing and being rude all over the place.

I try my best to be the change I want to see in the world, but it’s really tough sometimes to try and stay positive and constructive when you’re just enduring endless personal insults

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 1 points 1 week ago

Very true and very well said.

Though multiple things can be true at once - if both OP was acting in bad faith (I didn't look) and people get banned from Lemmy.ml at the drop of a hat, i.e. moderation is done in bad faith as well.

I get what you are saying - and yes, compassion is awesome - but also, look at the history of that instance and you'll see what I mean. If they really have lost the faith then they could step down as moderator of that instance and allow someone else to take that burden. Or just shut it down entirely (that's what the dmv.social instance did, when they felt like the pressure was too much). Not that I am advocating for either option (especially since the next person who replaces them would likely be actively worse at this point?), but just pointing out that after receiving the bad vibes, spreading them further is still a matter of choice.